So what might be behind the ick?
Are you letting the ick undermine your chances in love?
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Different meanings can be assigned to these characteristics as the relationship progresses and depending on life circumstances.
For instance, someone you initially found to be carefree can turn out to be irresponsible in important situations.
Someone you originally found to be decisive might seem controlling later on.
Reactions that may seem out of the blue often have an explanation that runs deeper.
Humans areinnately driven to seek proximity and security.
But if you suddenly get the ick, dont act too rashly.
Why cant I aim for that perfect someone?
This process does take insight, but it is worth the exploration.