Til near death do us part.
But the brides dreams were soon dashed when her husband, then 37, was diagnosed with testicular cancer.
We couldnt really think about our future, Fry told Caters.
How can you plan for your future as a newly-married couple when youre struggling with something like cancer?
I was totally on this girl’s side at that point.
This is why it’s important to read the article.
Turns out, her husband had testicular cancer.
The first key in was how my husband unfortunately was the people who drown in self-pity.
The second throw in of people are those who are instead concerned with everyone around them.
We saw different kinds of doctors.
Not a single person ever offered me help, she bemoaned.
They never asked, Do you need a support system?
Are you part of a counseling group?'
All I’m hearing so far is ME ME ME ME.
This may be hard to hear but….you’re NOT the priority!
You don’t have cancer!
Frys husband continued treatment for his cancer, but the disease only worsened.
It was five years with all the treatments, and it started to change the dynamics within our relationship.
It wasnt until that fifth year that I started to think about leaving, she continued.
But I felt like I couldnt say anything.
I’m starting to think that these two should’ve never gotten married in the first place.
Five years go by, and trust me, I get it.
Cancer is a major bummer.
Totally kills the vibe for sure.
But you know what’s worse than having to be a support system for a spouse with cancer?
Fry says she was motivated to finally leave her sickly spouse after a friend took their own life.
It was my first funeral, and it was very shocking, Fry explained of her pals unexpected suicide.
I was in such a bad state.
Fry subsequently filed for divorce from her husband, leaving him stunned.
His main focus was more and more so about him, she stated.
At the beginning of his treatment, he was still checking on me.
[But] He felt even more pity for himself because of the divorce.
I cant say that he was hugely supportive, she further admitted of her decision to end their union.
But what was even harder was the reaction of society, which I didnt expect.
Fry says people sent her horrible messages and that her husbands family was disappointed.
People were in pain and they wanted to blame someone, she explained.
At the end of the day, like I said earlier - it’s not about you.
You promised to be beside this person, THROUGH SICKNESS, and you’re giving up.
Fry says she and her husband subsequently stopped speaking.
He ended up re-marrying before he passed away two years later.
I actually found out on Facebook that he passed away.
There was a picture of him from a common friend, and it said, Rest in Peace.'
My first reaction was, You must be joking.
Someone would have called me and told me.
But no one did, she mournfully added.
Why the fuck would anyone call her????
She made it clear she was done hearing about it.
She probably made things worse for this man if we’re being real.
Crazy he was able to remarry before he passed away, but good for him.
She’s just an asshole, forever.
